Now is your time, time to focus on yourself and create a new you for the next phase of your life.  A very important question for you to ask yourself now is “What do I want?”  If you could create this phase of your life just the way you would like it to be, what would that look like?  Until we get very clear about what we want it is very difficult to bring that into our lives.  I would like to suggest that you take some time to work with that question. Keep asking yourself that question until you get some idea about what is important to you and you can feel the joy of having this be your reality.

Once you are clear about what you would want, if you could have things be just the way you would want them to be, I want to share with you a very valuable technique for attracting these things into your life.  This technique is visualization.  Sometimes people tell me they do not know how to visualize.  Actually we all know how to visualize.  We have been visualizing all of our lives, when we were children it was called daydreaming. When we grew up we found Einstein telling us that imagination is more important than knowledge.  Now that we are older and understand how important imagination is, we can consciously focus our attention on attracting things to us by visualizing them.

Create a vision of the life you would like to create for yourself, write it out in as much detail as you can.  Take some time to read it and create pictures in your mind of yourself in these experiences twice every day.  The best time is in the morning whenever it works best for you, then again before going to bed.  Let me know what happens.

Bobbie Stevens, Ph.D.
Author: Unlimited Futures: How to Understand the Life You Have and Create the Life You Want